Kanina pumasok lang ito sa isip ko. Bigla ko narealize lahat…
Jules is a Leo and I’am a Cancer. Ang mostly na sinasabi ng astrology is ang Leo and Cancer will have a loving relationship pero hindi sila match made in heaven.
Jules’ first girlfriend is a Sagittarius. Leo and Sagittarius is the best match. They are compatible with each other.
But they ended up after 2 months in a relationship.
Jules and I are in a relationship for more than a year. Kahit na nakasabi sa astrology namin na hindi tatagal ang relationship namin, we lasted longer than the relationship he first had that says that it is a perfect match.
Now, my point is that wala sa astrology ang relationship. Sometimes it is legit, but of course God’s plan is way better. Jules and I became so close when we were just best friends kasi same interests kami, same minds, same point of view and everything! Open din kami. I might be a shy and silent person pero open ako sa lahat.
First girlfriend niya, paano sila magiging compatible kung gusto ni Jules rock then gusto ng girl Mainstream? Yeah, some people might say na maganda makadiscover ng new things to an opposite person, pero paano kung ayaw nila and they will just stick to their wants? And isa pang naging conflict sa kanila is Religion. Jules is a Roman Catholic while she was in the Church Of Christ(Iglesia Ni Kristo). Hindi naman pwedeng magpaconvert kung sino man since may kani-kanila silang paniniwala di ba?
Pero siguro naging sila dahil nga somehow, they have some things that are matched-up. Like friends. Or they were the ones who were together when they were friends in times of problems.
Well I don’t know how they processed their relationship, but Jules told me stuff about them and now I understand.
Sa amin naman, we got close so easily kasi same likes kami: rock, black, hair, color, LAHAT! Kaso hindi niya lang daw naeexpress kasi nga jinujudge daw ng friends niya yung ganoong style. Then I always tell him na open up, be his self. Kasi ang paniniwala sa Diyos at ugali ng tao ay wala sa labas na kaanyuan. And isa pang nagpakamatched sa amin is yung Religion. We are both Catholics.
FACT: Muntikan na din kami ng family ko maging Iglesia Ni Kristo. Kaso tumiwalag si Lola and my family when my Mom was still a teenager since they don’t like the processes. I was also baptized as a Born Again Christian when I was born, but my Mom converted my sisters and I into Catholics later.
If you were to ask me kung paano kung nasa situation ako where our Religions are different to each other, I will tell him to quit his Religion and I will quit as well just to be fair. Hindi Religion ang way para maniwala sa Diyos kundi FAITH.
Anyways back to Astrological Partner. I’am a Cancer. Ang sabi sa Astrology ko is ang pinaka hindi ako compatible na Zodiac is Aquarius, Libra and Aries. I don’t really know but that’s what I remember.
Here’s a thing: My closest friend is an Aquarius, my sister, my mom and most of my family are Libras and we get along and my Grandmother and some of my aunts are Aries but they like talking to me. See?
Oo, siguro sometimes may understandings. Pero ang makakapagayos lang naman is yung pagtanggal ng wall of PRIDE.
OVERALL: Sa ugali, sa pagtrato ng ibang tao at sa mga gusto mong bagay ang magmamake way para sa compatibility. At saka sa openness sa isa’t-isa. Being open-minded in a good way is good. Pero tandaan lagi na dapat may limits.
I’am happy na sa loob ng lampas one year, mas lalong nagiging open ang pagkakaintindihan namin. Kagaya din naman kami ng ibang relationships. Kaso hindi lahat ng magkarelasyon open sa isa’t-isa na like masabi lang na in a relationship, magkakamustahan at magtanungan kung kumain na at ano ang ginagawa nila lang.
God made the best ways to let us find our true love. And siya din ang nagdesign ng minds natin to make decisions and feelings to express. Kaya kung tingin mo MAHAL mo siya, huwag magbase sa sabi ng iba. Nasa PUSO yan.
- Marjie
